This is the rose that was supposed to
have been given at convention to our
friend who was railroaded out of goats.
We brought the rose home for her, as
well as some new perspectives.
(We've been busy on the goat farm, as usual. We just got home from the national convention, which was, as usual, full of drama and turmoil.
Today Katherine is our guest blogger. Hang on to your hat. I stand by her and agree with her 100%. - AG)
This post doesn’t need images. It needs words.
I’ve been beat up and beat down in the pygmy goat show world. I’ve
watched people come and go – I’ve made friends near my age, only to have them
stop coming to shows and stop breeding goats altogether. Why?
The parents. The breeders. The judges. The passive
bystanders. The significant others. The youth.
Yes, if you’re reading this, I’m calling YOU out.
I am beyond disappointed in the adults that breed and show
pygmy goats.
There has been unpleasantness in the goat community
recently. It came to a boil at National Convention; there was yelling, there
were tears, and there was an icy silence. People left the show to explore the
region - specifically to get away from the tension.
I’m a youth breeder. I take pride in the fact that my goats
can compete with those of long-time breeders in the country. I look up to the
breeding programs of judges and older breeders, ask questions often, and
observe.
At the same time, I often feel like I’m the only adult
there. HOW am I one of the only mature goat breeders? I'm only 17.
What do youth breeders – and new members – see when judges
are bickering with one another? What do they see when parents attack other
parents, other breeders, and judges when they’re upset, rather than talking
like the adults that they are? What do they see when ADULT big breeders send
their animals into youth or 4H shows because “animals shown in youth shows do
not have to be youth-owned”?
And, more importantly, WHY should anyone show pygmy goats at all? I have
not had fun showing goats for years. I’ve stuck with it for two reasons: I like
my animals, and I need to put something on my college application.
Showing is the unfortunate side effect of my breeding
program.
I DON’T WANT TO SHOW GOATS. I DON’T WANT TO SHOW GOATS. I
DON’T WANT TO SHOW GOATS. I DON’T WANT TO SHOW GOATS.
Do I have to scream it on the microphone at a goat show to be
heard?
At shows, I find myself avoiding adults. They are rude,
inappropriate, and mean-spirited. I would spend more time with youth, except
there aren’t many. Their parents take charge of their projects and take on
social issues with gusto, upsetting the balance that has held the NPGA together
for decades. Their children aren’t told to make their own decisions. They have
no independence.
I’m practically alone, except for a group of a few close
friends – our group may be fewer now at shows.
The adults in the goat show community – mine in particular –
have behaved horribly. They have been acting like kids fighting in a sandbox.
Most of them are not role models that new members would look up to.
I would not recommend youth to join the pygmy goat club
associated with my region. I would not recommend ANYONE to join this regional
pygmy goat club as it stands now. I will be starting a new pygmy goat club in
the summer primarily FOR YOUTH as a last ditch effort to bring kids into our hobby and
to get away from the people in my club.
What do I tell clients, when they buy show-quality kids from
me? I’m sick of lying to new members. I’m tired of telling parents the goat
show community is warm and welcoming. It isn’t.
Our goat community is broken.
What used to feel like a family is now a big, drunken fight
for power.
What power? These are goats – no, these are PYGMY goats. If
you win – big deal! Your small, mostly useless goat can become even more
useless when it “finishes” and can no longer show or breed. If you don’t win –
I guess you should try again, but also badmouth the goat that did win, and the
breeder that owned that goat, and gossip about potential diseases within their
herds.
The adults in the pygmy goat world need to start acting like
adults. They can’t complain about the youth retention rate (hint: it’s low)
when they are causing the problem.
They need to ask themselves: “WHY am I breeding goats?”
And they need to GET OVER IT.
It isn’t to win. It’s to promote and improve the breed, to
create pets, and to spend time with a group of people that enjoy doing the same
thing. Our youth need to see adults having fun, not kicking each other out of
their club like they’re cool kids sitting at a lunch table in middle school.
Our community needs to reevaluate what’s important.
We need to bring more youth into our club, or it will die.
This is my warning to the goat world – and to every livestock community in the
country. Adults need to start acting like adults, not like preschoolers.
I’m at my wits end for showing goats, and what I’ve seen
lately has further encouraged me to stop. So when I’m gone at college – you’d
better find a new youth to take my place.
And you’d better not mess it up as badly again, because the next batch of youth will be your last chances.
As a refresher to those who have never read the NPGA code of
ethics, I would like to point out these 3 sections that I find especially
pertinent:
AS A MEMBER OF NPGA, I PLEDGE:
To realize my moral responsibility to the public, to my associates, and to the animals in my care.
To promote the interest, aims and purposes of NPGA and to endeavor at all times to improve the breed and to help create a favorable public image of the Pygmy Goat.
To use good judgment and ethical behavior, and to share my knowledge and contribute my energies in the interest of our common purposes.
